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A story

A small number of clients. Introductions made by hand.

The one we asked to wait

Four years, and he has since sent us two friends · Sydney

He came to us three months after a long marriage ended and we told him, gently, that we did not think it was the right time. He was not delighted.

He came back in the autumn, and was a different person to work with. His second introduction is now his partner of four years.

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The fourth introduction

Together three years

The first three were wrong, and each one was wrong usefully.

  • Across two continents

    Married, and relocated twice

  • The one we asked to wait

    Four years, and he has since sent us two friends

  • Two people who hated apps

    Engaged, eighteen months on