Privacy Notice

Lumen holds personal information about its clients and treats it as confidential. This notice sets out what is collected, why, who can see it and how long it is kept. Nothing about a client of this service is published. There is no profile of you on this website, no listing, and nothing for a search engine to index. Your photograph is shown to one person, before one introduction, after you have agreed to it — never in a gallery and never in bulk. We do not name clients to each other or in anything we publish, and the stories on this site appear with permission and with names changed. Nothing is shared with any other agency, network or partner. You can withdraw from every search in progress with a single conversation. You may ask at any time for a copy of what is held about you, for it to be corrected, or for it to be deleted. Deleting an account removes the profile, its photographs, its messages and its matches.