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A story

A small number of clients. Introductions made by hand.

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Introductions that became something

The fourth introduction

Together three years

The first three were wrong, and each one was wrong usefully.

Across two continents
Married, and relocated twice
The one we asked to wait
Four years, and he has since sent us two friends
Two people who hated apps
Engaged, eighteen months on

The fourth introduction

Together three years · London

She told us at the outset exactly what she wanted and we believed her. The first introduction was precisely that and it was flat.

What we learned in the conversation afterwards changed the brief entirely. The fourth introduction bore very little resemblance to what she had originally described. They have been together three years.

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