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A story

A small number of clients. Introductions made by hand.

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couples

Introductions that became something

The fourth introduction

Together three years

The first three were wrong, and each one was wrong usefully.

Across two continents
Married, and relocated twice
The one we asked to wait
Four years, and he has since sent us two friends
Two people who hated apps
Engaged, eighteen months on

Across two continents

Married, and relocated twice · Singapore

A search brief so specific that nobody on our books answered it. Marcus spent four months and approached eleven people, of whom one said yes to a conversation.

That was two years ago. They live in the same city now, which is neither of the two they started in.

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