How it works
Where families and individuals look for a marriage, carefully.
How it works
Five steps, at your own pace
Register free
Create the profile
Fifteen minutes, and you can do it for yourself or for your son, daughter, brother or sister. Nothing is visible until you say so.
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Say what you are looking for
Age, height, community, language, education, city, diet. These become the filters your matches are drawn from — and they are a preference, not a wall.
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Search the register
Filter it the way a family actually would, or let the compatibility score order it for you. Every profile shows you why it was suggested.
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Express an interest
They are told, and they accept or decline. If they accept, you are connected — and only then can either of you write.
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Speak, then meet
Contact details are released to a connection only. What happens after that is between the two families, which is how it should be.
Why here
What you get, and what you keep
The particulars that matter
Community, mother tongue, education, profession, family background and partner preferences — asked on the profile and filterable in the search, because these are the questions families are actually asking.
You decide who sees what
Three separate switches: who may see your profile, who may see your photographs, and who may see your telephone number. The last one defaults to nobody until you have both accepted an interest.
Profiles created by families, properly
Roughly half of all profiles are created by a parent or a sibling. Ours says so on the profile, so you always know who you are speaking to.
Verified members
A verified badge means a person on our team has checked identity documents against the profile. It is not automatic and it is not bought.
Interests, not swipes
You express an interest and the other person accepts or declines. Nothing happens until both sides have said yes, and nobody can message you before that.
Compatibility you can read
Every suggestion comes with the reasons behind it — the same age band, the same city, the same intention. Not a black box, and never a number on its own.
No public register
Profiles are not indexed by search engines unless the member has explicitly chosen a public profile. The default is members only.
Block and report, immediately
A block hides you both ways, withdraws any pending interest and closes the conversation. A report reaches a person, not a queue.
Trust
Your information, and who can see it
Your profile is visible to signed-in members only unless you change it. Your photographs carry their own setting.
Photographs are members-only by default
A new profile’s photographs are visible to signed-in members, never to the open web. You can narrow that to connections only, or open it, at any time.
Your telephone number is not on your profile
It is held, and released only to somebody you have accepted an interest from — and only on a membership that includes contact details.
Your date of birth never leaves our servers
We hold it to compute your age and to enforce a minimum. What anybody else sees is a number, and you can switch even that off.
We do not sell anything to anybody
No data broker, no advertising network, no "partner offers". The membership fee is the business model.
Verification is done by a person
An identity document, checked against the profile, by a member of our team. It takes two working days and it is free.
You can take yourself off at any time
One switch hides your profile from the register while keeping your connections. Another deletes it entirely.
The questions everybody has
Yes, and it is normal — about half of the profiles here are created by a parent or a sibling. The profile says who created it, so the person reading it always knows who they are corresponding with.
Register free
A marriage is worth taking seriously.
Create a profile in fifteen minutes. Nothing is visible until you say so, and nothing is shared with anybody you have not accepted.
